2020 Too: A Year for You!
Greetings friend-o’s and friendlies! Happy New Year!!! It is finally 2022 and the start of a new chapter for many of us. Since this is a new beginning I’ll keep this blog brief. While I truly don’t believe in new year resolutions, I believe in seasons. This is the start of a new season regardless if we are now three years into this simulation. I speak for myself and hopefully for you all when I say it’s time to really focus in on us. Trust me, 2022 has already been trying me and we are only a few days in so when I say that 2022 won’t take away this new energy… I mean it! I was speaking to a friend the other day and they were explaining to me how they wanted to leave a couple things in 2021. While they were speaking I was thinking the same exact thing. We all have baggage. We all have our own things going on that affect us differently but I think what gets us through it all, is our mindset. No matter what, we CANNOT let these things take our good and positive energy. Quick vulnerable moment!!! While reflecting, I found myself doing a lot for other people, whether they knew it or not. I never even realized it until it was too late. I was trying to keep certain standards from college, from high school, from really anywhere and because of it, I was becoming this person that I didn’t really enjoy as much as I let on. If I’m being real that is no one else’s fault but mine. I was so deep into it that I didn’t even realize that I was doing it half of the time. It’s funny because I am almost 100% sure that my roommate realized it before I did, but this all comes with growth. I would be remiss if I continued to keep living my life that way. This is why I say that I am focusing on me this year. I am not saying you need a new year to do so but I only realized it after reflecting on this past year. You can start this journey at any point in time and if you have already been on your “you grind”, shout out to you! Everyone else’s you grind will look different because we are all different people but the overall goal is the same. That means mind ya business, drink Yor Water (sponsor me), and live your life. Take those trips(solo or group), start that business, dress the way you want, make that music, change that career, etc! The list is endless and all you need is God in front of you and no one else can stop you. I know my blogs always end up having some type of positive ending and that is because I always end up realizing that no matter how hard things may get, God always sees me through it. Certain things may not go how you plan it but trust me its always for the better. It’s hard to see when you’re down in the valley but when you come out you’ll understand. To anyone reading this, take this season as a YOU season and don’t let anyone deter you from it. I am speaking to myself just as much as I am speaking to you all reading. 2022 is not 2020 Too, but it’s our do over year from 2020. I love you all and I mean it when I say I am glad you’re here, alive and breathing. Enjoy this year and I look forward to chatting with you all in the next blog. Oh, and don’t forget to call someone and tell them you love them! C’mon pull out that phone or switch over to the phone app. Go on! Get out of here and call!